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Why do men become grumpier as they get older?

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The man who used to meet life with quick humor or quiet calm now seems to meet the morning with a sharp edge. A misplaced set of keys triggers an outburst; a minor disruption to his routine turns into an afternoon of heavy silence. You walk into the room wondering which version of him you are going to encounter, searching why is my husband so irritable as he ages or why has his personality changed with age because the household now revolves around avoiding his temper.

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