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Why do men care so much about respect?

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You mention a simple observation about household tasks or offer a mild critique, and the room suddenly turns quiet and cold. He reacts as if you launched a personal attack, leaving you bewildered and wondering why does my husband say I disrespect him when all you intended was a candid conversation.

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