Why do men get jealous when they do not want a relationship?
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He made it clear he was not looking for anything serious, or he broke things off because he was not ready. Yet the moment you mention going on a date, dress up for an evening out, or start giving your attention to someone else, his attitude abruptly shifts. He becomes cold, inquisitive, or territorial, leaving you confused and searching why is he jealous if we are not together or why does he care who I date but won't commit.
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