Why do men have a midlife crisis?
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Almost overnight, the man you thought you knew seems like a stranger standing in his own life. The routines, commitments, and shared goals that used to anchor him are suddenly met with restlessness, detachment, or sudden, uncharacteristic choices. You find yourself searching why do men change in midlife or asking why does my husband act like a different person at 40, watching the ground beneath your shared life begin to shift.
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