Why do men lose interest in sex with their partner?
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You initiate touch or reach across the bed, only to feel him gently pull back or change the subject. The space between you grows larger, and in the quiet, you search why doesn't my husband want sex anymore or ask why has my boyfriend stopped initiating sex.
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