Why do men show less affection over time?
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You remember the early days when his hand found yours in the car, when hugs held you tight in the kitchen, and kisses were unhurried. Now, physical touch has thinned out into brief, functional nods or complete absence unless it is a prelude to sex. You sit on the opposite end of the couch feeling lonely, typing into the search bar, asking why is my husband less affectionate now, wondering when warmth turned into routine.
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